Love is a word which can’t be explained through words or action. It is just a feeling which conveys everything. If someone truly loves you, you will feel it automatically; he/she won’t need to explain. Most of the girls want the boy to propose her first, bending down on knees, which makes her feel special! There are rare cases where a girl proposes. In this matter, the boy doesn’t have that same aggression and feeling towards her. Boys are more restless to have that perfect girl. “Love the one who loves you, not the one whom you love”.
Attraction is always mistaken with love. You don’t fall in love with someone on the first sight, it’s just an attraction. Love needs time, feel and understanding. Today numerous boys only think to bed a girl. It’s not love, it’s your lust. The term “relationship” has passed all its limits. Those who are together for 2-3 months also claim themselves committed!! Bullshit!! Talking for hours at the night, going for a ride, watching movies, and updating romantic status doesn’t make you committed guys, love is beyond all this.
Love doesn’t expect any of the above things. Love is unconditional, which demands NOTHING! Want to see true love, see the love between you and God. He gave you everything yet never demanded anything back. Love someone with all they have, with all they did, because you fell in love with “that” person and not the person, you want to have. I have seen numerous relationships breaking because of the reason they don’t understand each other. It’s quite obvious that you can’t know someone in two months for sure.
You love a person, and not his/her CASTE, CREED, RELIGION, FAMILY, etc. If these things come in between your love, it clearly states you are not in love with someone but only pretending to love that person. True love doesn’t have any pain or agony. If you truly love someone, you won’t have time for pain, irrespective of her/he being with you or not. Love is not about getting the same love which one gives, it’s being satisfied with what you receive.
Here is short story depicting the essence of true love.
As the guy is not good with his words, this often causes the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vents her anger on him. As for him, he only endures it in silence.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"
T he girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leaves, they got engaged.
The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice......
The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.
During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry. It's still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same, except for the ringing tone of the phone, which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.
With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls.. All the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....
The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.
With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't any more news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw her name in it instead.
When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled..”
“Har pal ko apna banaya humne..
Har lamhe ko khushi se sajaya humne..
Khota bhi to ab kya khota..
Tu jo na hoti to shayd main bhi na hota..”